How do you know whether he isn’t interested anymore or whether you are simply over-analyzing the situation and worrying about nothing? I will get right to it so that you can have more insight into what is happening and not feel confused about whether he’s into you still or not.
He Doesn’t Call/Text Anymore
Did he used to text and call you a lot but now, it seems all communication has stopped? This is a sign he is no longer interested in you. Normally if he’s interested, he will make some kind of an effort to call or text.
He Isn’t Romantic
This is an obvious one. If he is no longer romantic, it means he probably does not like you “that way” anymore. Now, it is also possible that he does like you still but is less romantic than he used to be because he is now comfortable in the relationship…
He Doesn’t Go Out of His Way For You
Are you always the one making the effort in this situation? Is it a one-sided situation where you invest a ton of time and energy but he never goes out of his way for you? If he never goes out of his way for you, it means he does not feel the need to spend the extra energy because he does not feel the instinct to.
You Always Contact Him First
If he makes no effort to reach out to you first and you are always the one putting in the effort to reach out to him, this is a sign that he isn’t into you anymore.
He Doesn’t Spend Much Time With You
If a man is going to invest his time into something, it means he has to enjoy the time he is going to invest. A person is not going to invest their time into spending time with you if they are losing interest. It’s sad but true. If he used to go out of his way to make time for you in his life and now he does not, it’s a good chance he’s losing interest in you.
Now, there is also a chance that he actually still is interested but is simply busy in his own life. He might be occupied with something at work, in his personal life or he might simply be busy with something else. It might not mean he isn’t interested in you anymore. This is why it is important to remember this: do not constantly over analyze whether he is or isn’t interested in you. If you obsess over trying to find out if he is losing interest in you, you’ll drive him away further.
Instead, focus on the quality of the time you spend with him. Make it a point to be happy in your own life. When you do this, you give off a good, positive vibe. Men are instinctively attracted to happy women. If you do this, you will increase your shot of making him want to spend more time around you and you will increase his level of interest in you.
Instead of falling into the trap where you over analyze everything, drop this mindset. Why? Because it actually makes the situation worse. The more you over-analyze and speculate the farther you will push him away.
I understand it is hard not to overthink things, especially when your emotions are invested in the situation. Trust me, I get it. But it is in your best interest to drop this mindset because coming from this place of constantly worrying and being anxious will make it more likely that he does lose interest. I am only saying this to help you.
Nick Bastion is a dating and relationships expert with over 10 years of experience helping men and women have the love lives they’ve always wanted. You can find more of his writing at Vixen Daily in the Love and Relationships section.